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Actor Michael B. Jordan discusses his journey from Newark, overcoming imposter syndrome, and embracing his purpose. He shares insights on leadership, building teams, and the importance of authenticity, alongside promoting his new sea moss beverage, Moss.
Published March 11, 2024
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SPEAKER_04: Being honest with where you stand and how you feel, it's really giving another person an option and opportunity to be as honest with you. And whatever your fear of that is, of that outcome, is never really as big as what you make it up to be. You know, it's really not that. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone. But time will move on. You know, you will move past it. And if tomorrow never comes, at least you can know that you said what you needed to say.
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SPEAKER_02: Today I'm talking to the one and only Michael B. Jordan, a director, actor, producer, who's recognized as an industry leader invested in bringing social change to Hollywood through his art and philanthropy. Making his feature film directorial debut, Michael B. Jordan recently reprised the role of Adonis Creed in Creed 3. I'm a big Rocky fan, so when Creed dropped, you knew I had to see it. Which had the biggest opening weekend for a Creed film and biggest domestic opening for a sports movie ever, ever, of all time. I just need to clarify that. Up next, Michael B. Jordan is set to star in Ryan Coogler's next feature film for Warner Brothers. And Michael B. Jordan also was named one of Time's 100 Most Influential People of 2023. He's been recognized as People's 2020 Sexiest Man Alive. My team went on about this. And one of the New York Times 25 Greatest Actors of the 21st Century. And now he's got a new health drink out. And you know I'm a big fan of health and wellness. It's called Moss, the first of its kind sea moss beverage available nationwide as you're listening and watching today. Welcome to the show, Michael B. Jordan. Mike, it's great to have you here.
SPEAKER_04: Oh, man, Jay, appreciate it, man. That introduction is great. I just carry you around with me everywhere I go and just introduce me places. But no, I appreciate it. Thanks for having me, man.
SPEAKER_02: Well, I wanted to add also like in the few moments we've spent together, even just walking in, you know, if I can add to that intro, you know, extremely humble, gracious, kind, like thoughtful, like it's also nice meeting that. And I love that this platform is a space that can come out. And we were just talking about that. You were saying that, you know, you've almost been looking for a space where you can share that because you don't do a lot of press.
SPEAKER_04: You know, it's seasons for it. You know, obviously, you know, when you have a project coming out or something you need to promote, you know, there's it's a part of that that new cycle. But for me personally, I try to, you know, kind of say to myself a little bit and I'm very cautious of how you want people to get to know you. You know, when you have opportunities to speak and share things about yourself and not kind of, you know, be a part of sometimes other people's agenda, you know, so so that's but but been a big big fan of yours for for a long time and the work that you've done and you are currently doing and and felt like this was a good good time to, you know, to get out and talk and and, you know, share some things about me, I guess. You know, it's been it's been a journey, you know, it's been it's been a journey. So, you know, it's a nice little check in point, I think.
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I love that. Well, I appreciate the trust. And I love that check in point because it must be fascinating to look back at something and then think about where you were in life, what was going on in your mind. So I wanted to start with there was this one thing you said in an interview. And we were talking about this earlier, this idea of written versus being able to explain. Correct. And there was this great point you made that I think people wouldn't recognize with the amount of success you've had, the hits you've had, you know, I think people want to know about you and learn about you. But you said when you come from where I come from and everybody doesn't get those breaks, that luck, you start to question, why am I successful in life? Why did I go this way and everybody went that way? And I just thought that that was, you know, again, extremely humble and also representative of where you grew up, how you came up, like which way did everyone go and where did that luck begin for you?
SPEAKER_04: You know, I think coming up in Newark, New Jersey, coming up in that environment and, you know, having, you know, when you're younger, you know, you're living life, you know, you're taking it a day at a time. You know, you're going to basketball practice, you're going to school, you know, you're going to church. You know, for me, it was, you know, taking a lot of trips to New York City, going on auditions at a really, really young age and just figuring out what that is. Having parents pretty aware, you know, and very present in my life, you know, growing up, you know, that was rare amongst my family, amongst my friend group, you know, having both parents that was there and very present and aware of my environment as well. You know, what, you know, being told to look out for these things and make good choices, to be disciplined, to be focused on things, you know, get your school, you know, all the, you know, the positives in growing up in an environment like that. And, you know, hats off to my parents and to sacrifice so much to make sure their kids, you know, were safe and grew up in, you know, in a, you know, grew up in an environment, it ain't easy, making ends meet, you know. Grew up very poor, but didn't feel like it, you know what I'm saying? It was very, you know, I think they did a good job at hiding those things, you know. I think as we get older, we look back, it was like, oh man, we went through that. Or that's why we slept in the kitchen at one time with the oven open. Or that's when we stayed at grandma's house for like, you know, a couple of weeks. You know, so you get that reflection of how we kind of grew up. And I think for me, you know, always having a, you know, a bigger purpose, I think, or just, you know, just that optimism, you know, that I was a big dreamer as a kid. And I think, you know, you start to, not just to focus on just the work of it all, but since I was working at such a young age, that's the thing that I can kind of point to of, you know, booking auditions and getting this job and traveling to this place and experiencing these things and coming back home with these experiences and not having a lot of people who could relate or could, you know, I could soundboard off of. And I think in feeling like that, you don't want to alienate those people, you know. And I think, and this is all, I guess, in hindsight, you don't share these stories as much, you know, maybe you should, because you don't want somebody to feel, like, inadequate or, you know, not being able to have that experience that you might have had. And I think, you know, that snowballs as you get older. And from stepping stone to stepping stone, as I continue to be successful at a young age, you start to question, why am I being so successful? And the people that look just like me, that are right next to me in these everyday things, aren't necessarily doing that or not choosing to, you know, just didn't have those options that were laid out to them. And I think you start to doubt yourself for whatever reason or feel guilty for the things that you may or may not have, even though, you know, our parents were people of service, you know, block parties or, you know, cooking church dinners or, you know, whenever, you know, my house was the house that everybody came to at some point, whether we were going to get pizza that night or dad was going to take everybody camping or going to these things, like, it was, that was kind of my house within my neighborhood and community. And so I think for me, being a person of service kind of, because, you know, this kind of comes from how I was raised and those are the examples that I knew growing up. I always felt lucky too. As you become more successful and you see less people look like you that are being successful in this realm and you end up being the one guy, that looks like me, that's successful, or the couple guys that, or the usual suspects that you see in the audition room or in things of that nature, you know, you start to sometimes question why, why, why are you? Now I can, I feel as though it was my, it was my path, you know, it was my purpose and spirituality and growing up in a, in a household that was very focused on, you know, you know, church and spiritual and meditation and, and, and just being aware of the world that we live in. You know, I felt I was destined for, for something, not knowing what that was, but just something.
SPEAKER_02: Wow. Yeah. And I mean, when I'm hearing that, it sounds like, I love what you said. You were like, you know, they, they hid, we were poor and we didn't even see that, but this idea of like, you sound so, when I, when I see you talk about your family and for those of you watching, you can see it on Mike's face, but there's so much joy and there's bliss and there's like a, there's like a happiness when you're looking back on that time. Like I can see it's a positive experience because of how you feel you've been loved and cared for and supported, even though the resources may not have been there or the access or opportunities. And I was wondering when I was listening to you, like, is there a memory or an experience from your childhood that you think defines who you are today? Like, was there a, a memory or a story that you have in your mind of an experience you went through that you think brings out maybe that service element or brings out that purposeful element?
SPEAKER_04: And I think this, this bliss and this, this, this appreciation for how I grew up comes in hindsight, you know, like, you know, the first time you have a moment where you're like, pick up the phone, you know, one morning, and you just call your mom and be like, thank you. I get it. And I'm sorry. I'm sorry for, for being that kid at some point. And I'm so sorry for not understanding. I totally get what you guys are going through. Sheesh. I love you guys. You know, like you, you have those moments when you get older, you know, that you just can't really have that perspective when you, when you were a kid. And I think, you know, I was very mischievous, you know, as well. And, and, and I think there were moments when my dad disciplined me, you know, for, for, for, for, whatever the, you know, whatever I did at that time. And then my mom would have a conversation with me around the why. And, and then being also forced or pushed and nudged into a space where you had to acknowledge your siblings also, you know, in that situation and, and, and the importance of family and what that means, you know, my parents have different upbringings, you know, what I'm saying from, you know, and different family structures growing up. But one thing they've always provided us with is just a sense of like family over everything, you know, and how important that is. And that just kind of kept the groundedness to me throughout. So I think just the experiences of, of just family.
SPEAKER_02: I like your point about hindsight. I've definitely made that call to my mom for sure. Like, yeah, I've made that call to my mom, but we were around the same age. So for me, it's like, I've made that call. And I think I made it probably like 25, maybe 26. It was probably around then when I finally made that call. And not that I didn't love my mom before that, of course I did. But it was like that honest understanding of just how hard it was to do what she did. Cause she was raising two kids. She was dropping us to school, picking us up. She was the breadwinner of the family. She made us breakfast, lunch, and dinner fresh every day. Like, and you don't recognize that as a kid, you don't realize the sacrifice, the hustle, the, and, and always making you feel loved on top of doing all of that. It's hard work.
SPEAKER_02: You've talked to, you said that now you feel like you've got to a place that it's your path. What was that switch for you that went from like, I don't deserve this. God, like I feel out of place. I'm lucky to being like, no, actually now I see it as this was meant to be my path. Because I think a lot of people and a lot of our listeners will be there. Like a lot of people are like, they're making moves. And maybe they're the first person in their family to go to college. Or maybe they're the first person who started up a business and is an entrepreneur. Or maybe one of our listeners is trying to break generational trauma. And they're the first person to spot it. But then they all live in that space. I'm like, Can I do this? Like, am I the one to do this? And so what was it that made that switch from like, I'm not sure I'm the guy, but oh, it is my path.
SPEAKER_04: It's the sum of all things leading up into that point. I think it's all the doubt. It's the imposter syndrome. It's the blessings that you can't really accept fully. And you listen to other people speak who are successful. Or you see examples that you kind of feel connected to. Like, man, that kind of feels like me. Or what he just said or what she just said. I kind of resonate with that. You know, I feel like that sometimes. You know, other people who are looking at you saying, no, Mike, this is what you have. This is what you can be. This is what you are. Nah, nah, that can't. No, that's too good. No, that ain't me. You know, your own presence in a situation where you have to step back and look at yourself and be like, am I this guy right now? Like, oh, man, there's a room full of people who showed up because of something I'm doing. And they're in service or in support of my idea, my thing. Okay. That looks and feels like I'm the guy. Okay. You're in, I'm in the industry where, you know, you're the success of your work and your art has been, you know, dictated and validated by other people's opinions. Mm-hmm. And whether those opinions are factual or projected on you from their own individual perspective. I think it was a combination of all those things. And I've always been curious and walked towards the how do I make myself better? What are the things that I need, the tools that I need in order to improve myself, the way I think, the way, how do I maximize myself? You know, so from, I think, getting a, you know, an executive coach, you know, who talks to executives all day and, you know, how to create healthy conversations, the right type of conversations to have as you're building a team around you. Because, you know, as you know, it's not just us, you know, we have an entire team of people that surround us that help us achieve our dreams and get the big idea done. You know, a spiritual advisor, a spiritual coach that I have who, you know, helps me do my energy work, my spiritual work and help sift through the noise and find those things. And I think it wasn't until I had, you know, roles that challenged my spirit and myself in a real way that, that, that, that, in the, in the weight and, in where the attention was so loud that it was, you know, it was deafening and it was, and, and I couldn't, you know, um, see clearly and, you know, these champagne problems, you know what I'm saying? And I, you know, you know, you know, that like, you know, we're blessed. So, but the weight is so heavy, you know, and people sometimes think, and they see what we have or what, you know, are, what we're, you know, what we're doing. And it's like, oh, just be grateful, you know, or just, you know, what are you complaining about, you know? And, and, you know, most people wouldn't be able to walk, you know, a block in our shoes, you know, with, with this stuff. And I think it was, and you have moments where you, you resent things and you're angry at, you know, the feelings that you accumulate for not being clear or, or not understanding, you know, why this, there's a lot of whys and you're not going to get all the answers, but you want to, you know, be able to get to a place where you're, you're clear. So to answer the question, when did I decide, when did I, like, you know, when did I feel like that? Maybe two years ago, maybe a year ago, you look at where your family has come from and shit, look at your bloodline, you know, you look, you look at, you know, your community. You're like, man, there's a cycle there from generation to generation that happens when you get to yourself and you're like, man, can I stop this? Can I change this? I can do this. Once you, it's like, once you, once you know better, you got to almost do better. Once you see it, you can't unsee it. And I, I refuse to ignore it. I refuse to see it an opportunity that I had to change things and act like it didn't exist. And I think that was the thing for me that was like, nah, I gotta, I gotta, if that's my purpose, if that's my path is to just see it and I can see the pieces. And if I can just continue to do this or if I stay down the pathway on that and I, I might be able to make a big difference in my nephew's life or my, my, my future children's, my future grandchildren's life. I gotta do that because there's still been so many people that might, that didn't, that, that it wasn't the perfect storm for them to have that opportunity. It wasn't the right time in the world. Technology wasn't there. The resources, the right social conversations are being had for, for us to have these platforms and speak and be successful the way we are. Or, you know, you, you gotta, you gotta do it. And I think that was a big part of it, you know, um, you know, understanding my own mortality, you know, and, and understanding, you know, you know, life isn't, you know, isn't a forever thing. And I think that happens when you get older too, you know what I'm saying? Like, you know, just turned 37 and it's like, wow, I vividly remember, you know, 15. I vividly remember 21. I remember, vividly remember 25, 30, you know, and they used to look at 35, 37. Like, like ancient, you know what I'm saying? And I'm like, oh man, we're here. And it's like, you gotta do what you gotta do while you're here and make an impact. You gotta fulfill your, you gotta fulfill yourself, whatever that may be, you know? Um, and, uh, and I think, so yeah, so that, that moment for me where it was like, okay, I can do this. I can, maybe a couple of years ago, I think it was like, right as I was stepping into directing Creed 3. And the weight of that and being the captain of the ship the first time, being captain of the ship in a, you know, I've made movies before, you know, I've done that. I know what that's like, but I've never, ever been the director, you know, the captain of the ship. And I think that responsibility, that pressure that, you know, I'm not a dad, you know, but being able, everybody's looking to you for the answer, for the solve, for the leadership. And I think that really thrust me into, uh, um, a mindset of, uh, of, uh, of, uh, leadership that I'd never quite had the opportunity to do before.
SPEAKER_02: I mean, there's so much in that. Sorry, I said a lot. It's a great, I like it. I prefer it that way. Because I'm, I'm connecting all the dots as you're speaking. And there's, uh, I mean, there's so many things I want to unpack with that. But one of the things that really resonated is this idea that you had to challenge yourself. You had to do something out of your comfort zone in order to even recognize that you could become, that you could be, and that you could develop. And often we're waiting to become before we take on the challenge, but it's the challenge that makes us become that person. And I think we resist even what you said earlier about the opportunities, this idea that if you have opportunity, and there's an Eastern spiritual teaching, which talks about if you have opportunities and you don't take them, that's a disservice to humanity because they're opening up to you without your, even without your will sometimes, right? Like there's some of us and we'll sabotage ourselves because we'll say, oh, well, I didn't ask for that. I didn't, I didn't know that was for me. And so I love the idea of anyone who's listening or watching what Mike's saying. I love the idea of leaning into that opportunity that is opening up for you. And even if you don't have the skills and you don't have the talent yet, or you don't have all of the tools and the abilities, it's going to force you to develop them.
SPEAKER_05: For sure. SPEAKER_02: And you talk about the coaching. I want to go back to that and ask you about that because you want to be better mentally, physically, spiritually. It's a big part of who you are. And even the projects you take on, which I want to dive into that, you said roles that challenge your spirit. Even the idea that you're looking at a role, not as, oh, what's the next movie to get me the thing. It's like, oh, that's going to challenge my spirit. I wanted to ask what has been your best habit or tool uniquely that you've developed for your body, your mind and your spirit individually? What have been things that you've done with your coaches in different areas that you think has brought about new epiphanies, opportunities and ideas? What have been those tools and hacks that maybe people could lock into as well?
SPEAKER_04: I think there's this woman, Ramona Oliver, that's known me my entire life. You know, she's my spiritual advisor and coach. And, you know, I think starting the day, you know, in meditation, you know, you're taking a moment to clear yourself and prepare yourself for the day. It's so important to step out of your home with intent and intention. A lot of times it's what are you projecting on a situation to help it manifest instead of negatively thinking about things that can help block your blessings? I mean, that's a big thing, you know, so I so I think I think and we all have moments of negativity. That's part of it. You know, it's yin and yang. You're never going to fully get rid of that. But to practice those things in the morning, I think, was a big help for me. Yeah, huge.
SPEAKER_04: You know, you shoot movies and you're doing things, you're walking out, you know, there's there's there's stories of people that just can't get a break sometimes. And for whatever reason, it could be from stepping off the curve, twisting the ankle to, you know, the parking ticket to the thing to the I just can't get a break. And there's certain people that that carry this cloud, you know, and I think some of that can be contributed to the thought process and the thinking and the energy that you're putting into these things. And and it's sometimes easier said than done. But but to to stop and to reframe and to clear yourself into, you know, no, I'm walking in in this light today and see how much of a difference that can make.
SPEAKER_04: And more on the structural side, this guy, Drew Coogler, who no relation to Ryan Coogler, who was, you know, executive coach. And, you know, as my ambitions grew from production company to brand marketing consulting companies to, you know, just the products and the businesses, you know, the conversations I need to have with the team, you know, and leadership and the everybody's coming from different backgrounds. And how do you speak everybody's love language because everybody you have to speak differently a little bit to everybody so they can receive it the way you meant it, you know, and I think having the quality of conversations is something that was really helpful for me, meaningful conversations and giving people the space to hear me and also hold them accountable to the things that I need to hold them accountable for. I think the combination of the two allowed me to look at situations and opportunities differently for people to look at me differently, because it's also a troubling thing when you're walking around as talent for a long time. That's how they see you, you know, and you have an identity, have an identity. That's how that's what they're. So there's this there's these kid gloves that come along with that. You know what I'm saying? That is it's not everybody's fault. That's everybody's in a role. You have to sometimes just step back and look at the thing that we're in, you know, like we're in an industry, you know, that has generations and generations of taught behavior and practices that any positive disruptor has to understand those things in order to disrupt them in a way.
SPEAKER_02: Absolutely. And evolve them, you know, and things are evolving, you see it, you know, that things are evolving in a way. And if you can look at it in a, you know, in a higher way, I think you can find your way through that. Yeah. Yeah. That resonates. There's a, you remind me of this beautiful statement from Mark Twain, where he said that history never repeats itself, but it always rhymes. And I find like when you were talking about the industry, I was thinking about how, if you don't study history, you have the rhyme happening in your life, but then you can't interrupt the pattern. So if you were a young star, which you were, I love the wire as well. I've been a fan of the show. It's like, so you start in this industry early and then you could spend years trying to figure out why you still have the kid gloves on. Yeah. Because you haven't studied that. Wait a minute. That's what happens. That unless you disrupt the pattern, present yourself differently, show more of yourself, people are always going to say he's talent. He's an actor. That's, that's what he does. As opposed to, oh, he's a director. Oh, he's an entrepreneur. Oh, he's, he's an investor. Right. I know you have lots of investments all again in the health and wellness space, like sports teams. And we're talking about Moss as well. So it's, it's, it's interesting how much if you don't study the history of our industry, we get locked in the identity of the role we've played in that space. Correct. Forever. Correct.
SPEAKER_02: And, and, and it's so easy for us to get used to feeling. And often we do it to ourself because it's comfortable playing the same role. And there's a familiar feeling of when I play this role. And I felt that in my own small way, like when I went from having to create content to get my message out there, even though I wanted to do TV or film or whatever and couldn't get a break. And so I went to content and then I launched a podcast and I told you about why we launched this podcast earlier. And then I wrote books and it was like, every time it was like, oh, like, oh, we thought Jay was this, but oh, he's actually, oh, and, and I've had to go through that. And I've realized the hardest part is you letting go of that identity. And reinventing yourself. And allowing yourself. Right.
SPEAKER_04: Yeah. No, no, definitely. Like, I mean, have you ever like, you know, has the podcast been something you've always wanted to do? And this is me, I'm just curious, or is it something that you had to read, you forced yourself to read, to reinvent yourself in a way? Because this isn't it for you. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? I know it's not, you know, that this is, this is a stop for you. This is, this is a chapter in your book. Did you ever think I have to reinvent myself? Or was that a product of the things that were telling, you know, or the things that was challenging?
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's a great question. I think it's a mix of them all. But the thing that kind of like, supersedes all of them, which I try and tap into, which I think you resonate with, because I think that's the conversation we're having, is having a connection with your intuition. Like, for me, it's, I'm not looking at like, oh, what's the next trend? Or like, how do I disrupt myself? Because to me, those things are still following other patterns. SPEAKER_04: Gotcha. SPEAKER_02: Whereas it's intuitively going like, what is, what is the thing that I bring? Or what do I want to do? Or what is the, the, the missing piece of the puzzle that I believe I have a unique qualification to fill? SPEAKER_04: Gotcha. SPEAKER_02: Because if I'm always looking around, there will always be a million things. Like I always say to people, if you go to a real estate conference, you'll realize you don't invest enough in real estate. If you go, if you go, if you go to a cryptocurrency conference, you'll feel like, oh crap, I didn't do this. And if you, like, if I sit with a group of actors, I'll be like, oh man, I should have started. You're always going to feel the deficiency of the trend that you study. SPEAKER_02: Correct. SPEAKER_02: And so if you live that way around, it gets really complicated. Cause then you're like, well, do I do this or do I do that? Like, whereas when you, when you go inward, it's like, oh, I feel alignment with this right now because it lets me express myself. It lets me connect with people in a certain way. I feel I'm at the right evolution in my journey where it can manifest as opposed to like, oh, yeah, let me just figure out what the next big thing is. SPEAKER_02: Correct.
SPEAKER_04: That makes so much sense, bro. And I think that's what it is. It's like your alignment with where you feel truthful, you know, and sometimes that always doesn't mean you're going to be financially okay as well. You know, you know, like you can feel a sparsely aligned and everything and mortgage is due, you know, rent is due. You feel me? So, so there's that element of it as well that you have to find your, your way through. Yeah. That, that, that, that intuition that, that North star is what is something that has led me all types of places that I wouldn't trade in for the world. You know, just that feeling of this feels right. And I know, does it make sense? Probably, there's probably some other things on paper that, that seems like the better option or choice, but this feels right. And, and, you know, more often than not, you know, it's, it's been the right move.
SPEAKER_02: Yeah. I love what you were saying earlier about how the thought process is such a powerful way of breaking out over the cloud of your head. And I think we all have moments where the cloud feels like it's never moving. And it's constantly raining on you. And I think a lot of people who are listening may feel that way. Like, have you ever been in that place? And how have you, what has helped with your thought process as you've been tuning that? What's worked for you at least?
SPEAKER_04: That's your moment. That's your moment. That's your moment. It's not the all is lost. When you're feeling the most trapped and down and nothing can't go right. I feel like those are the moments that define you. Those are those character canon moments that are like, what am I going to do now? You know, how do you respond to that? And thinking your way, feeling your way, working your way through those things on the other side. It's like, you know, I don't know who said the saying, but like, usually, you know, you're the closest to getting what you want is always the hardest. It's always the feeling when you're getting ready to, you know, people give up right before they get what they've always wanted to get. People quit and they give up. And I will not be the person who quit before I got what I wanted or what I needed or what I felt I was supposed to have, you know, like, and if that wasn't for me, it wasn't for me. I'm going to keep grinding. And I'm going to keep knocking on the door until I get what I feel. That's been something I've always felt since having the name Michael Jordan and understanding that there's another guy out there named Michael Jordan that was the best ever to do something and being teased and picked on about that and made me for a moment not wanting to play sports. But then it was like, nah, I'm actually going to make sure I'm competitive. I'm going to compete. At least I'm going to compete. You're going to at least see me. I'm going to be somebody that it's not going to be, oh, his name is this. It's going to be, oh, no, but he can play. Or, oh, no, he can, oh, he has something about him, something that is formidable, that is above average, that is unique to him. And it gave me a healthy chip, you know? So, and for the people who are listening who do have, you know, that doesn't feel like they can change their circumstances with the way they think or they feel, just hold on. Just endure. Endure, you know? Look at things differently. Challenge yourself to look at things as the glass half full. Challenge yourself to think four steps ahead. Think your way through it. Like now we have so many tools. We have so much information. There's a lot of misinformation out there, but there's so much information to be curious. Find something that does resonate with you, even if it's not in the world that you ever thought you would be in. Find something that you align with. And because everybody aligns with something. That's not an excuse I'm willing to take from anybody, you know? Align with something and find your positivity, find your intuition within that thing and be obsessed about it.
SPEAKER_02: What have you been obsessed with lately? Like, what would you say is the thing you're most obsessed with right now or that you have been in the past couple of years that has kind of just attracted and-
SPEAKER_04: Man, I've been obsessed with getting my team right. I've been obsessed with getting the right personnel on the right brain frequency and getting everybody on the same page. To accomplish these things that we need to accomplish. Because I truly believe it's going to be better for everyone. I think it's really going to make an impact, you know? And so there's an obsessiveness that you've got to have to over-communicate, to follow up, to be redundant, to be consistent, you know, that you need. And I'm obsessed about it, you know? Strengthening my family. I'm obsessed over it, you know? To lead by example, you know? And break generational trauma and curses. I'm obsessed over it. And I'm obsessed over every project that I lend myself to. So this next movie that me and Ryan's doing, I'm literally, you know, I'm growing all my stuff out, you know what I mean? My hair and stuff is out now. And I'm becoming obsessed with it, you know? And that character. And it's an addictive feeling to have a thought and see it come to fruition. To create something out of, you know, from an idea. SPEAKER_00: Yeah. SPEAKER_04: And to be persistent and to see it and to manifest it, you know? Manifestation. I just love it, you know what I mean? It's cool. So that's something that I've been really, really locked in with. And I think it's also something that is going to help people, you know? There's always a... I don't want anything that's not multi-hyphenated. I want anything that I'm involved in, it has to have layers to it. You know, how do you help? How do you educate? What's the leave behind? What blueprint am I leaving for the next generation? You know, I got a nephew now, you know, that is looking up at me constantly. Yes, because of height, but also because of the example, you know? And he's mimicking everything I do. He's mimicking anything. I can say something, do something, like a sit a certain type of way. Oh, snap, he's doing it too. It's crazy. So it clarifies your intention when you do things because you want it to have, you know, purpose and intention, you know? So those are the things, and I'm obsessed with being the best version of myself. And that's a daily thing, you know? And some days are better than others. Finding myself in a world where there's so many seen opinions about yourself when everybody's telling you who and what you are, you know, learning how to live, you know, growing up in it. Like, and it's so wild. I've been doing this for 25 years straight, you know? And that's a wild thing to think about. But man, more than half of my life has been my identity, has been through the work that I've been doing. And growing up and with, you know, social media, what didn't exist, now it does. At a point where I'm old enough to understand what that can do. So I'm obsessed with finding myself now after and not having to prove anything to anybody other than myself and my family, you know? But really myself. And realizing that that is enough. You know what I'm saying? Like that, like, giving your best is enough. And sometimes we lose track of that, you know? And, yeah. So for anybody out there, you know, you're enough, man.
SPEAKER_02: Absolutely. Let's toast to that. SPEAKER_04: Let's toast to that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Shake it up. SPEAKER_04: Shake it up. SPEAKER_04: Yeah, man. And this is the pure. So we have three flavors right now. The mango ginger, the pomegranate. But this is the... SPEAKER_02: Cheers, man. SPEAKER_02: Ah, cheers, my God. Appreciate you, bro. SPEAKER_02: I'm excited to try this. SPEAKER_02: Oh, that's good. That's easy. SPEAKER_02: Easy. SPEAKER_02: It's easy. SPEAKER_04: And anybody that's had, like, Seamoss in the past, they might not have a good experience because they either, like, they kind of, you know, tried to clean it and process it themselves. SPEAKER_04: It's so smooth. SPEAKER_04: Smooth. SPEAKER_05: Yeah. SPEAKER_04: Don't taste like the ocean. SPEAKER_04: But it tastes a little, you know, it's a little heightened. SPEAKER_02: It's like, it's refreshing, it's smooth, and it's easy. That's how I feel about it. SPEAKER_02: I love it. SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm like, this is like... SPEAKER_04: And it's a great mixer, you know? SPEAKER_04: You know, I don't know if you know if you want to do a... SPEAKER_04: We call them moss tails. SPEAKER_04: But, like, if you want to do, like, mock tails, moss tails, you know what I'm saying? SPEAKER_04: Or if you want to mix them, like, with drinks, like, with the spirits and stuff like that, it's a really good... SPEAKER_04: Yeah, man, I just... SPEAKER_04: This is five years of obsession. SPEAKER_04: You know, obviously, when, you know, health scares all over the place, people, you know, not a lot of information on what's really going on, what can help, what cannot help. SPEAKER_04: I was, you know, finishing up a movie in Berlin and, you know, doing my own stunts, not sleeping a lot in a foreign place, you know, food wasn't really my thing as much. SPEAKER_04: And I was looking for something to kind of just help me get through my shoot days. SPEAKER_04: And I was just chugged sea moss, like, I mean, by the jar, just to... SPEAKER_04: Because, I mean, I was just like, it's got to be doing good. SPEAKER_04: I know it's doing good, you know, just by the jar. SPEAKER_04: And then, you know, on the flight home, I was like, it's got to be a better way. SPEAKER_00: Yeah. SPEAKER_04: So I started making smoothies, started, you know, blending them in. SPEAKER_04: And my sister was pregnant with my nephew Lennox at the time. SPEAKER_04: So, you know, at that point, everybody was in their own bubble, you know, and, you know, wasn't able to kind of visit many people. SPEAKER_04: So we would just blend up smoothies, drop them off at the front door. SPEAKER_04: You know, that was my little care package that I would do. SPEAKER_04: I would do sea moss and I would do like a, you know, a homemade little pasta. SPEAKER_04: And that was my act of service for my family, you know? SPEAKER_04: So that labor of love, that kind of, it started from a place of just trying to help my family just like, you know, stay healthy during a pandemic. SPEAKER_04: And it slowly evolved in something that I wanted to get, you know, make it accessible to everyone.
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, for people who don't know the benefits of sea moss, what are some of the things and the properties? SPEAKER_04: It's that cognitive brain, you know, it's that clarity, you know, your immune system. SPEAKER_04: So being able to harvest them in a way that gets those nutrients inside of this drink and your daily dose of moss is something that I was really, really exciting me about just like making a beverage about it. SPEAKER_02: Yeah. SPEAKER_02: The aftertaste is great too. SPEAKER_02: There's no idea. SPEAKER_02: It's there. SPEAKER_04: It makes you want to drink more of it. SPEAKER_02: Yeah, 100%. SPEAKER_02: Yeah. SPEAKER_04: And yeah. SPEAKER_04: It's good, man. SPEAKER_04: It's good, man. SPEAKER_04: It's good. SPEAKER_04: And it's, it's, yeah, I'm proud of it. SPEAKER_04: Yeah. SPEAKER_02: I'm proud of it. SPEAKER_02: Congratulations. SPEAKER_02: Thanks, man. SPEAKER_02: Thanks, man. SPEAKER_02: Now we know we got to go to yours, man. SPEAKER_02: What's up? SPEAKER_02: No, we'll have to do a, we'll have to do a moss tail now with Julian, Julian Moss. SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah. SPEAKER_04: No, but I love it because Ashwanda, we got Ashwanda in ours as well and Gensink. SPEAKER_04: So, I mean, you, you, you got all the adaptogens in it. SPEAKER_04: So that's great. SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah. SPEAKER_02: No, it's been, it's been a labor of love for us too. SPEAKER_02: It's like me and my wife always talked about it as our COVID baby. SPEAKER_02: It's like, this is what we were working on because we were the same. SPEAKER_02: We've been addicted to tea our whole lives and we did a hot tea as well. SPEAKER_02: But we were like, you know, for a lot of people, their hot drink is coffee. SPEAKER_02: And we're like, well, wait a minute. SPEAKER_02: What if your soda could be healthy for you and good for you? SPEAKER_02: And, you know, how could we do it where it has, you know, zero grams of sugar? SPEAKER_02: Like how do you still get it to taste great with no sugar? SPEAKER_02: Because me and my wife are both off of refined sugars and trying to be healthy and all the rest of it. SPEAKER_02: And then you realize that all the sodas you're drinking are full of it. SPEAKER_02: So how do we make it easy for people to understand these herbs and these adaptogens? SPEAKER_02: And, you know, because a lot of people, we grew up with it. SPEAKER_02: We were lucky in our culture, in Indian culture, you grow up with a lot of these herbs and spices in your daily food. SPEAKER_02: And, but a lot of people don't have access to that. SPEAKER_02: So it's like, how do you make it easy when people may not have it in their kitchen? SPEAKER_02: So, yeah, man, I'll send you some to try later as well. SPEAKER_04: No, please do, man. SPEAKER_04: I see you got the agave in there and everything. SPEAKER_04: And I love this, man.
SPEAKER_02: I was loving what you were saying about the building of teams because, and something you said was like, how do you keep everyone on like the same frequency and like attract those people? And I went through a big thing for that in a certain part of my work around two years ago. A lot of people that are in my sphere today, some of them have been around since the beginning and some of them came on in the last two years. And it has been life-changing. SPEAKER_01: Yes. SPEAKER_02: Like absolutely life-changing from an energy standpoint, from a spirit standpoint, and from a productivity effectiveness standpoint. How have you been trained or what do you, how do you sense beyond like someone being able to do the job, obviously, how have you been able to learn how to sense or understand whether someone's on that same brain wave. And as you said, or brain energy as you are and, and has that same value set that you have?
SPEAKER_04: I think it's a lot of conversations and, and, and sometimes trial and error. Uh, I think my, my intuition and my gut is, is the first, you know, litmus test is the first kind of line of defense, you know, that I, that I have of like energies vibe, you know what I'm saying? Like, okay, that, that, that, that you feel on par, how, you know, how you answer a question. What are the things that you're saying? You know, um, are you speaking from ego? Are you speaking about, you know, what, what is the, what is the thing? You know, you, you, you, you know, we're used to, we meet so many people. We have to use quick judgments and who gets our time, you know, um, who do you open up to? Who do you not? And I think when it comes to building into a team, uh, especially nowadays, you're coming into something that's, that's well-oiled. SPEAKER_02: Yeah. SPEAKER_04: You're coming into a machine already. So you have to fit, not just with me, but you have to kind of fit with everybody. You know, you, you, you have to know how to communicate the things you need to know how to communicate to. You have to, the, the ego is something that can get in a lot of people's way when joining a team and joining something that's already really established. And I think, I think, um, coming to a place of learning and listening is really important and not taking things personally. Um, I think, I think, uh, and then it's something to the people that's already been in the team to understand that there's going to be additions and there is a process of, there's an onboarding, there's a welcome, there's a thing that you have to, to bring people into the fold in a way to get the best out of them. So I think there's been, there's been those learning things along the way. That's really, that really helped me identify people who, um, that fit and work well within the circle, you know? Um, and, and, uh, yeah, I think that's been my, my kind of process thus far. Um, and then, yeah, I always want to create an environment where people want to be. Yeah. You know, you're not here for a check. Yeah. You're here because you believe in what we're doing and what we want to do. Um, and I'm pretty transparent about those things, you know? So, so I think, I think just being extremely transparent and, and, and forward with those things and, and, and know that there's nothing personal if this isn't it, you know? Like, um, I'm the best, I'm the, I'm the guy that's always going to give you a great recommendation. You know what I mean? Like I'm, I want, I want people to win. Yeah. You know, at the end of the day, I want people to win and, and seeing somebody in their strengths, you know, and being like, okay, I can use that, that, this, this would be helpful in this way. Um, and if that works out, it works out. And if not, then man, I, man, I want to see you do well.
SPEAKER_02: Yeah. I love that. Yeah. We, I remember years ago, I was listening to Eric Schmidt, who is the CEO of Google for a bit. Yeah. And he was talking about how they were looking for smart creatives. And I love that, that they had two words that kind of summed up what they looked for. They, they looked for people who were smart creatives. And for me, it became humble champions. I was like, I want humble winners. I want, I want the people who can, who want to win and have that ambition, but are able to put their ego aside because then we're going to speed up getting there because the thing that slows you down from winning is ego. Like the thing that stops you from passing the ball is ego or, you know, bowing out and saying it's your turn is ego. And so, but, but you still have to have that champion mindset because it isn't just about, oh, yeah, no, no, no. You do your thing. Like, and that was a big thing. And then the other thing that worked for me was I was like, I need to work with people that I could go to breakfast, lunch, or dinner with if we didn't work together. SPEAKER_04: Yes, man. SPEAKER_02: Do I actually want to go to breakfast, lunch, and dinner with this person? Because I probably will be when I'm traveling or on the road. That means I like spending time with them, which means I'm happy to coach them and I'm happy to learn from them. SPEAKER_02: Exactly. SPEAKER_02: Whereas if I don't want to, and initially I was like that, I used to just hire people who were great at what they did, but we didn't really have chemistry. Like we didn't, we didn't, we couldn't hang out and that wasn't because they were wrong. It was also because I wasn't aware. SPEAKER_04: Gotcha. SPEAKER_02: And, and then of course, yeah, the mission, the purpose is, I mean, that's core and central.
SPEAKER_04: Because even for you, I mean, you're spending time from your family with, you know, your team becomes your extended family. They, they, they are your family. You're eating, like I said, breakfast, lunch, and dinner, you know, like there's, there's a part of you that, you know, it has to feel like I'm getting a little bit of my family here. And if it's not that, you know, it's really hard for me, you know? And obviously like, you know, you have a bigger company and there's employees and you're not going to be as personal with everybody within the company. You know, you're not having breakfast, lunch or dinner with everybody, but, but there's a, there's a, there's a feeling of, you know, I don't mind on a Sunday, everybody at my house watching a game, spending time. Cause that's when not the nine to five time to be creative or the nine to five time to do the job. That's the, that's the extra mile. That's the, oh, I had this idea and I was just thinking, oh, oh, we're looking at something together and this would be great. The best ideas sometimes come from those just hangout moments and those moments where you're just spending time with, with, uh, with people that you work with. So yeah, I think that, yeah, you're right. That's, that's really important.
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, for sure. When I, before the obsession point that came up, which, which was fascinating, I'm glad I asked you that and you went, you went into it. You're talking about like, you know, you, you live in an industry and you talked about social media where people have an opinion of you. People, people, even an opinion is that people have a lens because they've seen you in a particular light and I was wondering like, what do you think something that people get right about you? And what's something that people sometimes get wrong about you? Like, what, what do you feel like when it comes to that? Like, I'll tell you mine. Like, I feel like for me, a lot of people think that I get like often because of what I teach and what I'm sharing and what I'm guiding, it's like, oh, well, Jay must get everything perfect all the time. And like, you know, he's like super deep and like always just saying profound things. And, and that's not true, obviously, because as much as that is who I am and that is my heart, I'm not always like that. Like I have, I have bad days. I have bad moods. I have off days. I have days when I'm not feeling that way. Right. And so that's, that's something that people get wrong about me sometimes in the, in that perception because, but I'm dedicated to this work. I'm obsessed with it. I'm obsessed with being better, but that doesn't remove me from having flaws and weaknesses. And, and so, yeah.
SPEAKER_04: You should do a blooper reel. SPEAKER_04: You should do a blooper outtake reel of those moments. You ask your team, catch you in these little moments and you should put one out. That'll be fun. SPEAKER_05: That'll be fun. SPEAKER_05: That'll be fun. SPEAKER_04: I like that. SPEAKER_04: I like that. SPEAKER_04: That'd be a good one. SPEAKER_04: I like that. SPEAKER_04: I think for me, it's like, I think I've intentionally stayed out the way so much where I'm not giving anybody any, anything to go off of other than what I want you to know. You know, I think, I think that's been it for a long time. Um, I've always had the approach of like not speaking on things and not giving them life. You know, there's, there's, there's going to be perspectives and there's things about you that just aren't true. Uh, do you, do you care to correct somebody or not? You know, cause most of the time people's minds are made up no matter what you say. It is what it's going to be, you know, stay out the comment section. You know what I mean? You get some great entertainment in there, but then you can get a lot of stuff that is just people who want to project the thing that's going to get the most attention. And the issue that I have with a lot of that is they can be completely false. And we have a, a industry of, we were talking earlier, the lack of journalism, the skill of that, that will run with those things, knowing that there is no basis to them. But now that's a narrative that's attached to you, that you have to be strong enough and strong minded enough to ignore knowing it's not true or this human nature feeling of wanting to know that's not true. I want people to know this about me. And I've always walked on that line of, you know, not caring, trying not to care and knowing that I'm enough and knowing my truth and the people who know me know me. You know, I am about my community and my people, you know, wholeheartedly. And a lot of the choices that I make and the things that I want to do and be a part of is in service of that bigger picture, you know, of helping that, you know, my community in a big way. So I think the biggest thing sometimes if they ever feel like that, they're not my top priority is maybe one of the biggest misconceptions. You know, the love I have for my community, regardless of people's approach, I think everybody has a different strategy and approach to how they affect and make change. Everybody, it doesn't all look the same. And because it may not be typical or the average voice, because the package is different and the craft and my field is different. So I have a different set of boundaries that exist in my lane that I maneuver without, in and out of. Like I love playing chess. I love strategy. I love reverse engineering and building things. So I think that's one of the biggest things. And, you know, sometimes ignorance and a laugh or a joke or a like or a thing, we've encouraged the behavior of negativity and things and loudness is the thing. And that's just not what I'm into. SPEAKER_01: Yeah. SPEAKER_04: I'm into the love of things. I'm into the humanity and bringing people together the best way and, but also I'm human.
SPEAKER_02: Yeah. No, I appreciate that. I mean, I also think we've put a false pressure on the definition of authenticity, meaning you share everything with everyone. And I'm not sure I vibe with that definition because I think authenticity by nature is you sharing what you feel comfortable with each person. Like that's what it means to be authentic. And you could argue that authentic just means being however you want to be in any given situation. And so I think there has become a false pressure of, oh, you got to show you're authentic by showing every part of yourself. And I don't know if that triggers anything for you. It's like, what's the definition of authenticity for you? Or for me, that's what it is. But what is it for you?
SPEAKER_04: I think it's, but then in hindsight, there's a, there's a piece of it that not even is to go back, but there's, there's also like, maybe that's my insecurity framing what the loudness of the things that I'm most sensitive of. Is this noise somehow? SPEAKER_02: Yeah. SPEAKER_02: It triggers us for a reason. You know what I'm saying? There's some stuff that you just go, oh yeah. SPEAKER_04: But it's like, but it's just like, man, like, why does that, why does that bother me so much? SPEAKER_00: Yeah. SPEAKER_04: Like there's something, there's something about that, that because I know what that does in the bigger, like I'm always thinking bigger picture. It's very rarely that I really focus on the thing. And it's always about what's the cause of that in a bigger conversation, you know, the authenticity to me is being able to sleep at night, being able to go talk to my mom and knowing that the people that know me, every fiber of my being, every, my intention knows my heart through and through that they see the same person. They're able to connect with the same energy and the same vibe and the same spirit. My energy has never changed. You know, I think being authentic to that frequency is super important to me. No matter where I go, no matter how I evolve and have to mature and grow up, I want my energy to always feel the same. That's why when you meet certain people and it's been years that go by and you pick right
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